I just don't have the answers this time

Can anyone tell me why a person, knowing that the choices they are making in life will lead them to unhappiness, can still make those choices? Or how even though you loved someone and pushed them away but you still love them, you can sit there and not fight for what you want and get them back? I am having a tough time at the moment dealing with a personal situation I have encountered where these 2 questions play a lot into the struggle I am having. I have so many unanswered questions right now and I don't think there is anyone that can give me the answers except myself. Do I just wait it out day by day and see what happens, what perspires? Or do I attempt to do something about this conundrum I have involved myself in? (For those of you that know me well enough, I am sure you can figure out where I am here and what the hell I am am talking about, HINT: 6 months ago).

Once again I am not left dissapointed

GO FLAMES GO!!!! We did it, we beat the record and I was there in the crowd for every minute of our 5-2 victory over the Minnesota Wild. (http://www.calgaryflames.com/game_center/post_game.html)